📝 Parent Checklist: Eye Exam for Neurodivergent Kids

Before the Visit:

  • ☐ Ask if the ophthalmologist has experience with neurodivergent children.
  • ☐ Request a longer appointment slot so your child doesn’t feel rushed.
  • ☐ Tell the office about sensory needs: lighting, sounds, touching, waiting time.
  • ☐ Bring comfort items (favorite toy, blanket, fidget).
  • ☐ Prepare your child with pictures or videos of the office/equipment.

Questions to Ask the Doctor:

  1. Is my child’s vision 20/20, or do they have tracking/focusing issues?
  2. How is their depth perception?
  3. Are their eye muscles working together properly?
  4. Could vision be affecting their reading, writing, or balance?
  5. Are there signs of eye strain that could cause behavior changes?
  6. Should we limit screen time or change screen habits?
  7. How often should we come back for a check-up?

During the Visit:

  • ☐ Ask the doctor to explain each step to your child before doing it.
  • ☐ Take notes (or ask if you can record the explanation).
  • ☐ Request a written copy of the exam results.

After the Visit:

  • ☐ If there’s a diagnosis, ask for school accommodations (IEP/504 update).
  • ☐ Share results with your child’s therapists/teachers.
  • ☐ Follow up on any recommended therapy, glasses, or exercises.

📌 Parent Tip: Even if your child “passes” the school vision screen, still see an ophthalmologist every 1–2 years. School screenings are quick checks — they don’t test everything.

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