Why Deep Breathing Helps

  • Reduces stress instantly: Deep breaths signal your body that it’s okay to relax.
  • Improves patience: When you feel frustrated, a few slow breaths can reset your mind.
  • Sets a positive example: Kids notice your calm energy, which helps them regulate their own emotions.

How I Do It

  1. Find a quiet spot: Even 30 seconds at your kitchen counter or car seat works.
  2. Inhale slowly through your nose for 4 counts.
  3. Hold your breath for 2 counts.
  4. Exhale slowly through your mouth for 6 counts.
  5. Repeat 3–5 times, or until you feel calmer.

You can also combine it with a visual—like imagining your stress leaving with each exhale. It sounds simple, but it really helps to reset your energy.


Tips for Busy Moms

  • Do it before meltdowns, when you feel tension building.
  • Use it as a quick break during therapy sessions or appointments.
  • Pair it with positive affirmations, like “I am calm, I am patient, I can handle this.”

💙 Mom-to-mom truth: You don’t need fancy tools or hours of meditation. Just a few deep breaths can make a huge difference in how you handle the day—and your child notices too.


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