Aaj main ek lafz pe baat karna chahti hoon jo aksar sun’ne ko milta hai: neurodiverse. Jab maine pehli dafa yeh suna, mujhe bhi samajh nahi aaya ke iska matlab kya hai. Baad mein seekha ke iska simple matlab hai: har bacha ka dimaag alag tareeqe se kaam karta hai—aur yeh bilkul theek hai.

Hamare bachay jo autism, ADHD, sensory processing ya learning differences ke saath hain—sab is neurodiversity ki khoobsurat dunia ka hissa hain.


Yeh Lafz Kyu Zaroori Hai

Jab koi kehta hai ke bacha neurodiverse hai, iska matlab yeh nahi ke us mein kuch “galat” hai. Iska matlab hai unka dimaag unique hai. Yeh lafz focus shift karta hai “fix karne” se lekar samajhne aur support karne tak.


Real-Life Example

Mere bache ke liye neurodiverse hone ka matlab yeh hai:

  • Routines sikhne mein time lagta hai
  • Grocery store ki bheer usay overwhelm kar deti hai
  • Lekin saath hi—woh aisi choti details dekh leta hai jo main miss kar deti hoon, woh deeply feel karta hai, aur mujhe patience sikhaata hai.

Is liye main apne bache ko doosron se compare karna chhor diya. Uska brain apni speed pe hai, aur yeh bilkul fine hai.


Kaise Support Karain Neurodiverse Bachon Ko

  1. Patience – Dheere dheere progress hogi, lekin hogi zaroor.
  2. Tools – Visual schedules, sensory-friendly spaces, noise-canceling headphones.
  3. Advocacy – Schools, doctors aur community mein apne bache ke liye awaaz uthana.
  4. Love – Din ke aakhir mein, unko yeh feel karana ke woh valued hain, “kam” nahi.

Neurodiverse hone ka matlab broken hona nahi—bas different hona hai. Aur different bhi beautiful ho sakta hai.


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