I want to share the next step in our potty training journey, because I know how overwhelming it can feel. Once your child starts learning the potty sign with their hand, here’s how you can move forward.
Step 1: Use the Sign + Potty Association
Every time your child goes to the potty, use the sign again and again. Over time, they’ll start to make the connection—“when I do this sign, I get to go to the bathroom.”

It’s not just about the potty; it’s about giving your child the power to communicate their needs. And trust me, the first time they actually use that sign on their own—it feels so good, like one of those proud parent moments where you just want to cheer them on.
Step 2: Transition to Panties (Daytime)
Once your child is comfortable with the routine and the sign, it’s time for the big step: panties during the day.
- Start with short stretches at home
- Expect accidents (and that’s okay!)
- Stay consistent—remind them every 30 minutes
Panties help them feel the difference when they’re wet vs. dry, which is a big motivator to use the potty.
Step 3: Nighttime Training Comes Later
Don’t rush nighttime training. Many kids—even neurotypical kids—take a lot longer to stay dry at night. Focus on daytime success first. Once your child is doing well during the day, you can slowly move towards nighttime training.
The key here is patience and celebrating every step forward. Potty training is not “one size fits all.” For our kids, it’s about breaking it down into small, achievable steps:
- Pull-ups with routine
- Sign + potty association
- Transition to panties (day)
- Nighttime potty training
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